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The privilege of your “perhaps not”
I don’t date.
Jun 13
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Zahra Spencer
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May 2025
blink and you'll miss the point
It’s a random Sunday evening and I’m kind of watching the tennis channel.
May 23
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Zahra Spencer
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blink and you'll miss the point
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If you keep fighting the truth eventually it will fight back
There might come a time where you’ll find yourself in a dynamic you know you should no longer be in.
May 5
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Zahra Spencer
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April 2025
Oh, so that's what chemistry feels like
I showed up in this world, fresh out the womb, playing too much, talking too much, smiling too much, and I’ve only gotten better (or worse) with age.
Apr 22
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Zahra Spencer
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An impromptu thank you note (& a quick confession)
Assuming this is a safe space(!), I have to confess that this newsletter was starting to stress me out.
Apr 22
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Zahra Spencer
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An impromptu thank you note (& a quick confession)
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What if I said the breakup is just the beginning, my love?
Life will not ask, it will insist that you start from scratch
Apr 10
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Zahra Spencer
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What if I said the breakup is just the beginning, my love?
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March 2025
the dream is in the work
I believe in wrestling things to the the ground
Mar 25
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Zahra Spencer
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the dream is in the work
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the envy/inspiration spectrum
Envy comes from a place of scarcity, the belief that there's only so much space in the sky
Mar 18
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Zahra Spencer
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the envy/inspiration spectrum
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for the girls (cause it's women's history month, duh)
I wrote this poem back in 2017 but I wanted to breathe some new life into it so I asked my beautiful, amazing, talented friend Denise to narrate it, and…
Mar 11
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Zahra Spencer
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February 2025
the downside of loving (yourself)
People will make you second-guess the way you love yourself— especially if it’s too loud
Feb 28
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Zahra Spencer
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something for the lovers
If someone asked me how I know when I’m in love, I’d say..
Feb 14
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Zahra Spencer
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You don’t want a love story
The thing about love stories is they’re just that.
Feb 14
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Zahra Spencer
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You don’t want a love story
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